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OK, so here's the deal. I have always regarded myself as straight, but (hesitantly) have to admit that I've been having bi-curious thoughts. All this arose from an interest in pegging and mild crossdressing.
I kind of want to take something to the next level and figure out where the hell I end up, but I'm really only attracted to the idea of sucking a dick when I'm really frustratedly horny. I don't find men to actually be attractive, just the abstract idea of fellatio or anal. Plus, as far as I can tell, I'm still a fan of pussy. I guess it's nice to have options, even if I don't quite know what those options are.
The biggest concern stopping me from diving in is the fear of STDs. I've only ever had sex with two women, both of which were virgins when we started getting down.
I have this mental image of people on craigslist as being too fugly, smelly, or disease-laden to get a date any other way, yet I see it as my only possible venue for experimentation, as nobody I know would be down for it. (Not that I'd want any of my friends to know anyway.)
What do I do? Do I post an ad on craigslist and hope for the best?
Good advice might be rewarded, depending on whether or not I can get my camera working.
Pic is not me.
I'm pretty much in the exact place you are. Personally, I think we should definitely try sucking some cock, we'll probably love it.
I've tried Craigslist, but my area isn't the best and there are allot of creepers, and disease scares me. I suppose the best thing for us would be to find someone similar who you can try things discretely with. I personally haven't found anyone near me.
Email if you want to talk about it:
fsufun13 at yahoo
i have the exact same problem too, not only that but i live in Mitchell Nebraska witch has a population of less than 2,000 people, personally i think u should just try to meet new people and stay optimistic. if any one wants to talk to me my email is email@example.com
If you're super-eager to meet like-minded people, do an online search for crossdressing / transgender support groups -- such as Tri-Ess (www.tri-ess.org), or other transgender outreach councils for example. You might be surprised to find a local organization or local chapter of a national organization within driving distance.
It's also worth noting that any such group worth its salt will interview you in-person before you can formally join (obviously, for the safety and confidentiality of its membership).
That said, if all you're looking for is a dating experience with someone to experiment with, Outreach Programs, Gender Centers, transgender groups, or other InterSocial Clubs are veritable hotbeds for TG-dating... mostly because many of those who attend often see one another as exclusive alternatives to an otherwise vast and confusing outside world.
craigslist is the creepiest thing ever.
will i never tried craigslist but have be to the local adult shops and they some times have guys sucking each other. never tried it though. but i do play with dildos. sucking and fucking. i dont want any std's and aids.
will i have sucked two guys that i never met in my life. i just told them not to cum in my mouth, if you suck a guys cock, you can tell that his about to cum by his cock it well get big right before he cums.
>>217It's good to know you're remarkably paranoid about contracting fluid-based viruses... but preparation and protection can go a long way. Yes, you can contract sexually transmitted diseases through unprotected sex... but if you think you'll contract an STD and die right off the bat from one experience of oral sex (a la a recent episode of South Park), then you're mistaken.
Also, it seems you've inaccurately equated STDS with AIDS...
Craigslist does seem like it could be a little creepy but the fact that you're thinking of using it should tell you that there are probably other non-creepy people thinking of using it too. You can always just talk to someone online, then on the phone, then meet up if you feel really comfortable with them. I'm not a bad-looking guy and I'm not creepy but I've posted on craigslist because I don't like the bar/club scene and I don't know how else to meet someone.
Of course, I posted my ad just to see if there were any TGs in my area interested in men and I got a bunch of responses from dudes wanting to fuck me. So maybe don't go in expecting too much.
I put my ass on craigslist for an hour and I have men lined up for weeks!
Well where do you live?
i can see why... anything good cum of this?
The only place I've used so far to meet people was Adult Friend Finder, its not perfect but it seems less creepy then craiglist. Free membership is decent(it's what I have) You can't see anything but the profile picture but you can send and receive messages and people can and will send you full size pics through the AFF messaging center.
Oh man, I can relate to that so much! I'm almost exactly the same as you, except I haven't tried trapping yet. I do wanna though~!
maybe some new pics amd a aim sn?? :)
Honestly you're broken enough posting ads on the internet let alone craigslist
at least you have your priorities straight and are worried about stds as you should be, since craigslist especially is a breeding ground for them. just focus on that and work your way backwards. there really isn't any better way to offer advice for just wanting to suck dick other than make sure that dick tested.
By luck, I met a pre-op tranny that was into pegging CD's on CL when I was vacationing in NYC. We used condoms and everything. I ended up catching an STD called Molluscum, it's a nasty rash that's a bitch to get rid of.
Condoms won't protect against everything, especially if they have stuff growing on their skin, like herpes, molluscum, or whatever. Keep that in mind before you decide to turn out the lights.
Yea Molluscum does suck badly, I got it pretty randomly from some skin to skin contact while giving a blowjob. But I have been careful since then and have never had a problem with most guys I've been with. I would suggest you try squirt.org its handy for finding men and cd's with pics and stats on what they're interested as well as a forum to post adds without all of your town seeing. Just setup a free account, its much better than adult friend finder in my opinion.
i am an mtf transsexual, and a big fan of giving dome, it is one of my favorite forms of intercourse, however, and call me a moralfag all you want, but any form of sex without a relationship is in my opinion no good.i suggest that you go to an lgbtq support meeting, talk to some guys there, form a relationship, then try giving dome, but for a first experience i highly recommend against doing it with someone you have no attraction towards
find a girl that likes threesomes. i've dated 9 girls and 5 of them wanted me to fuck them with another guy because they had a queer dude fantasy. then you go to a gay bar with her and pick up another guy.
or just walk into a gay bar.
ima trap, looking for a trap. and it seems my quest to have a very sexy night may never happen.
this is a free dating site that allows you to select your sexuality and intentions, this would be an idea to pass a few doors and see if u like it
Yeah, pretty much same here... Though I just cross-dress, I can't be trappin' anyone...
Seriously though, it is very hard to find traps/cds in my town. Apparently the problem is that, none of the traps/cds in town like to top--at all. I've hooked up with a couple and 69'd and what not, but when it come right down to it, finding some hot girl come over and do more than that is kind of difficult since we both want the thing the other doesn't want to give.
Anyway, I just wanted to spill my angst too...
As for whether you want to suck a dick or not and want to go on to CL or not... I've been both ways really. I've flat out asked a friend to nail me, told him I'd give it up completely... I was right that he would be cool not to act differently about it, but he didn't want it, and that's still as bad in some ways. Better just leave that route alone.
Then I met a few guys off of CL. The first one was kind of a weird experience, beacuse thinking like anyone else I went, "Well, I'll talk to this guy first." Wound up doing some webcamming for him, and the next thing I knew I was at his house with his flaccid cock in my mouth listening to him say, "I don't know why..." I think he was some kind of closet-case who thought he was gay and didn't like it when it came down to it or something.
The other time, I just thought, "Okay, I'll just meet someone on a random whim, meet them, and if I don't like them bail."
Well, I really liked this guy, and... It was totally worth getting over the apprehension. It was a lot different than I expected, but very enjoyable in a weird sort of vicarious way. Anal sex on the other hand is just downright awesome. Go ahead and give that a go asap.
As far as the people on CL go, none of them were very creepy or anything like that, and I didn't get any STDs. So far I've only hooked up with three people though, so I don't know, take that as you want it.
Personally I'm in the dilemma of just wishing there were more cds around. I've actually considered moving into the nearest major city just to increase my chances.
>Though I just cross-dress, I can't be trappin' anyone...
It's all a matter of how badly you want it.