Cross-dressing, Trapping

So two mutual friends of me and my girlfriend are going out to get a manicure, pedicure and some eyebrow shaping. My gf does not want to go because she is just "not interested in all that girly shit." They keep offering, saying just to hang out and such. Both of them are really cool and just want to hang out with my gf outside of our normal D&D context.

I'm sitting here trying to be detached as possible but just screaming in my head "GO DO NEAT THINGS FOR WHICH IT IS SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE FOR YOU TO DO, SOME OF US DON'T HAVE THAT LUXURY."
rage etc.

Obviously from context no one knows I like to CD (well my gf does a little but thinks it's mainly a fetish) and that I would like to have a much more androgynous look in general. Bah fuck socially established gender roles and my self internalizing of them, panopticon etc. for you philosophyfags.